Oh……oh ok… I never knew.
This is one of those times where I really have to voice my opnion.
I am not a weave wearer. I tried to wear a weave and I just didn’t like it. I felt like it was way too much hair on my head. BUT LISTEN… I have never, never EVER thought, when I looked at a woman who wore weave, that “A man can’t POSSIBLY take her serious and consider her to be wife material because she wears weaves! She’s only good for sex!”
I don’t even have to tell you all how ignorant this statement is. At first, i’m thinking, “Gab, don’t jump to conclusions. You only have a screenshot of the conversation and this may not be the whole story” … but then I went and found the real story
Yall, this is a real mentality. It’s almost infuriating to me to think that not only are women being judged as whores based off of their hairstyles but to actually find out that some men and women believe this is just incomprehensible.
The natural hair community was never here to divide the “weave” from “the naturals”; it was more so here to show us that our hair, that we once thought was hideous, is actually one of the most beautiful and regal creations ever made by the Almighty.
This was NOT an attempt to turn women who wear weave into females who are only good for a romp in the sack. Whether your natural, relaxed, or wear weaves, NO WOMAN, should ever be looked at as something for you to just bang. Yes, I understand that some women present themselves as such based on their dress or attitude but you cannot classify and stereotype women who are wearing weaves as ALL whores.
This is just about defending women in general. I think african-american women go through enough automatic sexual objectification based on the way we are built to add something so menial and insignificant as a reason to further justify that “black women are easy”. I know black women aren’t the only women who wear weaves but WHO ARE WE KIDDING!? We know who this post is directed to.
I would love to hear yall input on this because this is one topic that I think would get under any woman’s skin. AA,White,Asian,spanish, or whatever ethnicity you may be.
With that being said, I hope the person who created this FB post takes a look at their on character and examine themselves. Not just them but all that believe this and ask “Why would I judge a woman based on her hairstyle?” and “What in the hell is wrong with me?”
With that being said, I will leave yall with 14 Reasons Black Girls Rock …. I’m out ~duece~